The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/TeaMysterious4856 on 2024-04-29 21:57:12.

My family and I are in the midst of planning a family trip with my two sisters and mom. My older sister is a family of 4, I have a family of 5, little sister is single and unmarried, and then there’s my mom who’s widowed. So whilst planning on where to go and what not, we agreed on Hawaii. My older sister and I have been in communication in a group chat with my little sister for weeks, and for weeks we did not get any type of response from my little sister on what she thought about the hotels we picked out and all of that. Mainly to accommodate everyone’s family and stuff like that. Well we finally agreed on a hotel that is right off the beach; however, it did not accommodate my family of 5. My little sister suggested that she could have one of my kids stay in her room and that wouldn’t be an issue at all. So I agreed and also agreed to give her money for my daughter to stay in her hotel room so she wouldn’t just be mooching for a free room. All for the sake of us to stay in the same hotel being that it’s a “family vacation”. When it came time to book, my sister pushed me to book the same day we spoke about my daughter rooming with her and my mom and said “it wasn’t an issue at all, go ahead and book now to lock in the price.” So I did. As soon as I booked it (hotel and flight) and paid, she came to me and said “well now our room is going to be cramped and I don’t think she (my daughter) can stay in my room with mom.” Am I wrong for being upset? Fast forward to now (this was all back in March) I’m having to change my hotel to accommodate 5 people which is now going to cost me an additional $2500. Am I wrong for being this upset? Or is she the asshole?