The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Acrobatic-Agent-6532 on 2024-04-29 15:21:10.

I (38M) just booked a holiday for me and my daughter (16F). We have done this every year since she was born, we’ve carried on the tradition since her mother died as a way to remember her (we go to the same place during the same two weeks).

Last year when we planned to go I’d talked to my gf (35F) about it and she was completely fine and said how she had no issue with it just being me and my daughter and it would be fine in the future. So when I booked it this year I assumed she would be fine with it again as she had said she would be. However, when I told her that I’d booked it she completely freaked out saying that I was entitled and selfish for not taking her as well.

I’ve tried to explain to her that this is a very personal event for me and my daughter but she doesn’t seem to listen and keeps on telling me to book her tickets as well, I’ve talked to my daughter about it and she’s said she would rather it be just us two.

Was I wrong for not booking tickets for my gf? Should I book her tickets as well?

Edit: To clarify, I have already taken them both on holiday this year and I’m not just using all my pto on my daughter.