The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/sleepysarah0 on 2025-02-21 14:40:16.

She’s nice, no doubt . But she’d get on my nerves like no other. I noticed her behavior before we became “close” and at that time I was thinking I’d never be close to her because well, i don’t like her at all. But things change, i wanted to become a better person so i started talking to her more. And then BOOM we became so close it’s like we’re actually “meant” to be “friends” all along.

Reasons i don’t really like her:

  1. On my birthday, i decided to curl my hair (because well, it’s my birthday and I’ve never done it before) and decides to show it to my friends. I did and she tried to ruined my hair. I was upset but i played along thinking that maybe its her way of teasing(she did ruined it at some point).

  2. She LOVES male attention. It’s not even funny anymore She’d say “i might sound like a pick me” and exactly sound like one and ACTS like one.

  3. She act different when we’re with others. It’s like she’s a whole different person. She acts nicer and She never listen to me anymore.

  4. She laughed at me when i scored less than her at a particular subject. I never laughed or even smiled when she Scores less. I’d tell her all positive things trying to get her mood better, but a LAUGH is what i get.

There’s so much more but I’ll stop there.

I tried to stay away from her but i don’t know, i can’t. And, well, I’ll always talk to her again (it’s hard to ignore her when we see each other every day). Since i don’t really talk to others, I’m stuck with her for now. Its really not that great. I sometimes think that it’s me who’s actually in the wrong but I’d remember what she did to me and stuff. If I’m actually wrong, i want to change myself and be better and do better. So please tell me who’s actually the problem…

(And English is not my first language, so if i made any mistakes i ask for your understanding)