The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/injectedintothenet on 2025-02-21 05:36:30.

For context, we are a system (medically recognized). One of our persecutors recently told off our friend because he was positive that our friend was being toxic towards us. This isn’t the first time he’s done this, and none of the others are sure whether or not what he did was right or wrong. The reason why the argument started was because of something I said the day prior, regarding feeling excluded from the rest of our friend group.

Now getting on to the actual argument, he says our friend started off accusatory and deflecting any blame. I will quote the copy and pasted message of what our friend said. “hey so i dont mean this in a bad way so if anyhing i say sounds rude i dont mean it like that but you going home and immediately putting that you were excluded in your status is blatant lying because 1st. victoria isnt even friends with you , she doesnt like you and you dont like her . 2. you didnt really even sit by us and weren’t contributing to the convo anyway so im a bit confused and 3. when i DID try to talk to you because i was concerned that you seemed a bit upset you had a terrible tone and way of responding so i assumed you were upset withh me so i didnt continue yhe conversation ! my personal opinion i just had to get out.”

Our persecutor, who we’ll refer to as A was almost immediately triggered by the response and instead of letting me, the host handle it he took matters into his own hands. Something that’s also important is that A is also not good at conveying tone or keeping his cool, so he went all out and called him out on our friends “blatant bs”. Apparently I am no longer on speaking terms with him, but I (the host) was not there for this conversation and I had nothing to do with it until I came back to front to handle things.

He goes on to accuse me (who keep in mind, isn’t even in the conversation) of “doing a bunch of shit” and blames me for the entire interaction. He refused to elaborate on said “shit” and still does. (All I have done for this guy is defend him, white-knight for him, and buy him things he asked ME for.) And now isn’t responding at all, has unfriended or blocked me on everything besides the regular Messages App.

TLDR; Alter called friend out on toxic behavior, friend got mad and blamed the host and cut us off + is refusing to speak to us.