The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Puzzled_Signature417 on 2025-02-20 19:14:43.

I (16F) have two parents that were together, but never married and now are separated. They have a great relationship, they are best friends through and through, as my mother has a husband. I don’t talk to her husband, but i always communicate with her everyday as well as my father. I live with my father, not with my mother.

In my family runs problems, such as mental health and health issues. I have Chronic Migraines that I have inherited from my mother. She has treatment of pills and also Neurologist appointments. However, i have only had one Neurologist when i was living with her but i stopped getting treated for an unknown reason. Since July, i have moved in with my father. So i asked my father to make an appointment with my doctor.

When he did, the guy he was talking to on the phone refused to give him any information on finding a Neurologist, because he wasn’t on the list. My mother is, so he went to her and asked her to call the insurance so we can find one in our area, mind you this was 2 months ago.

She hasn’t, and refuses to because she believes that he should. She has free time, but he does too. They have been fighting for two months now on who should call and both of them haven’t, why does it get me angry? Because it doesn’t matter who calls, it’s the fact they both haven’t made the call for me even when i am begging because the migraines i have effected my everyday life.

It angers me that not even one of them will make the call after two months. My father can call places around, and my mother can make one simple call to the insurance and find out. But they are both instead fighting still to this Thursday about it. I got angry with them and kind of yelled at them in a mature way that they need to get off their asses and make the call, however they said i was out of line and i have no reason to be angry. Am i the asshole? (Take note i am under-care of a pediatric doctor and legally not allowed to make any appointment or call at all, i am legally required to have a parent/guardian.)

[I will not contact any authority for this. I have many problems that cause my parents not to call, my mother is very hard working, also my father is as well. They are treating me well and I am cared for! They do NOT neglect me in anyway! I love my parents very much, they are sometimes assholes.]