The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Evening-Grass4617 on 2025-02-20 14:33:59.

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) and I have been together for 7 years and live in a one bedroom, one bathroom apartment. I handle most of the household chores dishes, laundry, and general cleaning but one thing I ask him to do is clean the toilet when he leaves stains after using it.

Almost every morning, I wake up to find marks in the toilet from his poop. Since we only have one bathroom, I have to see it first thing when I go to use the restroom. I’ve asked him repeatedly to take a moment to clean it before he leaves for work, but he usually forgets or says he’ll do it later. When I bring it up, he says he’ll clean it when he gets home about eight hours later.

I don’t feel like I should have to leave it sitting there all day and use the bathroom over it like a porta potty in my own home. To me, it seems like a basic expectation to clean up after yourself, especially when I take care of most of the other housework. He thinks I’m overreacting and that I should just wait for him to do it when he gets home.

AITA for expecting him to clean up immediately rather than waiting until later?