The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Happy_Language_1396 on 2025-02-20 00:06:39.
So my sister (29) got this Abbott Lyon necklace one of the ‘made for you ones’ which are personal in gold and with 4 personal charms off her boyfriend for Christmas.
I had seen and loved these necklaces they’re all over Instagram and after seeing the quality of them I hinted to my boyfriend I wanted one for my 21st birthday. I didn’t think it would be a problem between us at all when I got in silver with three charms that are nothing like hers and are personal to me and my boyfriend.
Since getting it she was rude and dismissive when talking about it and when I finally said she was being rude and it was annoying me she told me she was upset I took this “special thing” from her. Just because her boyfriend found it on her own and I showed it to mine she is upset saying I copied her and stole that special thing from her.
She has always been the centre of attention, and this really upset me that two vastly different necklaces caused such a problem. I told her she was a self centred b word and she called me a cow in return and we haven’t spoken to each other since.
She is expecting me to apologise and I refuse to when she’s blown this out of proportion and has tainted my boyfriend’s gorgeous present.
Am I the asshole here and need to apologise??