The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/happulilork_2772 on 2025-02-20 06:47:32.

Am I (22F) the asshole for feeling offended that my boyfriend (23M) won’t add me on Reddit? We have been dating for about three months, and we were talking about how I just got an account on Reddit and downloaded the app (he loves this app), but when I brought up us following each other on here, he said I was cringe. I was not expecting that reaction and defensively asked why he would not want to be my friend. When he said it was cringe I defensively snapped at him and asked him why that was cringe. He’s said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but won’t spend any Reddit life with me. I don’t know the social norms on Reddit and following your significant other, but he seemed harsh. When I asked him why it was cringe he just said ‘I guess we could follow each other’ but that clearly means his heart is not in it. I felt like I was showing interest in his interest and he shot me down.

Should I let it go because it’s really not that deep or is it cute for couples to follow each other on here and he just doesn’t see the vision? (Edited for clarity)