The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/icygirl7 on 2025-02-20 05:37:03.

I (23f) recently started a new job as server at a restaurant this week. It’s been okay, I honestly don’t like how everyone is overly friendly at work but a job is a job right?

This afternoon, I finally meet this co-worker (32m) who works from Wednesdays to Sundays. I shook his hands when he came in to introduce myself. He raised my hand up, looked at me up and down, and spun me around 360 to check out my body.

I was just in shock, I didn’t know what was happening. He then told me I had a nice figure and he wishes he had a butt like mine.

At that point, I was all red. I was just like what?? and he immediately apologized, saying he was just complimenting my body and then asked for my gym routine.

Other co-workers were around us and they saw I was clearly uncomfortable so they jumped in and just told me he is just like that. In the background, I heard him trying to tell me he is gay and he didn’t mean anything bad by the comment.

But at that point, my head was spinning and I was infuriated. Sure I had men catcalled me and said inappropriate things but not like this, not in workplace by a co-worker, not with other co-workers watching. It was a really embarrassing situation.

I clocked out about half an hour after that. I worked day shift and he usually does night shift, so luckily we didn’t have to work together today. He just got here a little early and spent the rest of the time in the break room talking with others. He seems super loud and way too friendly with others as well, he doesn’t watch what he says.

I immediately texted my manager, who didn’t come in because it was his only day off. I then emailed the HR department including all details and asked for my co-worker to be fired because what he did and said was simply too inappropriate. He seems to be a popular guy at work and brings in a lot of tips so I don’t know if they will really fire him or just give a warning.

AITA for asking him to be fired? Am I going too far?