The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/937-Bitch-Brigade on 2025-02-19 13:35:18.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom that I refuse to take care of her or take her to her chemotherapy if she continues to smoke? She has stage ng cancer and I feel like it’s not fair for her to expect me to be her caretaker and support person if she doesn’t even take care of herself.