The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Specialist-Ladder608 on 2025-02-19 05:47:31.

I 31 Female have decided to leave my husband 34 male after finding out he’s cheated but it was two years ago . We have three young kids under 5 and I was pregnant with our youngest child when i found out he was cheating oct 2022 . I was in massage therapy school at the time . I had a funny feeling so I came home early that day he wasn’t at home but all the lights were on so I felt weird I drove down to the bar he is normally at opened his truck door and he has his pants halfway down with a female in the car … did I. Or mention he was also facing a federal sentence at this time . It was a lot going on . I left him that day but he claimed he wanted to stay in the marriage me being pregnant and vulnerable I stayed . But it doesn’t stop there he kept disrespecting me with this same girl up until he left to go to the prison so I had honestly gave up but then once he got off of quarantine when he got to prison he’s been calling me everyday for the entire time he’s been in there communicating with me and the kids , I feel like there has been some change in him but it could also be jail talk . But honestly I’m over it I just want to move on I can’t ever forget what he’s done . Plus that wasn’t the first time he cheated he cheated on me right when I gave birth to our first son . Am I the asshole for moving to an entire state away without telling him even though I’ve still been talking to him for these two years