The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/SniffyMMA on 2025-02-09 05:16:14.

A person she hated joined a discord server I’m a mod in and asked me to ban them, I asked for a valid reason why. not just “I hate them so much”. So I messaged them against her wishes and asked if they had any beef, who had no idea she hated him. I Screenshot the conversation with my girlfriend and sent it to him.

From the boyfriend standpoint I’d do it without a doubt, however from a mod point it’s validated to get an actual reason, right? It’s just as if your boss fired you for no reason.

She’s not mad at me for not doing it the second she says, but for screenshotting the conversation and sending it to him.

I see both sides but doesn’t it seem excessive just because you don’t like someone that they need to be kicked from every community y’all share?

Was it wrong to ask for a justifiable reason or should I have just done it without question?