The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Successful-Club-6068 on 2024-11-04 00:41:13.

So this interaction came from Snapchat. My school friends make a groupchat and added me in it. There are maybe about 7 people on it. They are all pretty active, and when someone sends a snap or message they all immediately open it. There is two main people in this, Braxden and Faye. Faye is a boyish girl who doesn’t really have beef with anyone and Braxden is a boy who kinda acts girly. I’m pretty good friends with them both. To add a little more information for Faye, she is popular. She has a ton of older friends and if something happens that she doesn’t like happens she will call it out. Kind of important but I sit right next to her, just let that be known. So well, I check in on the groupchat and like usual there is a ton of snaps. I swipe through them all and a video snap starts playing. It’s of my friend Braxden. He has his little sister on his stomach. She looks to be around 2 or 4 years old. Definitely a toddler and a young one at most. Well she was giggling and Braxden tickles her stomach but uses his nail and his nail is long so it like bends. I thought it was silly cause it was such a weird way to scratch her. By the way, it wasn’t a hurtful scratch it was light but hard enough to make his nail bend, the little girl continues giggling. I though it was wholesome so I just write “Why’d you tickle her like that 😭” When I sent it I didn’t think much about it. Then maybe around 20 minutes later, I check my phone again to see a few messages were sent in the groupchat. I open them mindlessly and see that Faye wrote “Cause he can” I was kind of shocked. I mean she was the most laidback person. It sounds like I’m over reacting and maybe I am but this kind of made me freeze because if I made Faye uncomfortable than I really messed up. Then I see Braxden typing and he says, “Cuz she’s my sister stop being weird abt it holy” I am not sure what he meant by ‘holy’ But I was like “Oh shii” because I realized they misunderstood what I said. So I am just wide eyed at my phone not knowing what to do. I first delete my message, I know that it wont do anything because everyone already saw it, but I don’t want anyone to look back and re-read my message. I take a moment to think about what to say next and eventually speak, “Yeah mb I didn’t mean for it to be weird like that 😓” And almost everyone looks at my message and 2 of my friends send snaps just of random things. But I get a message from my other friend, Daniela. She writes, “Dude, why’d you say that to Braxden” I was just cringing at my phone and I still havent written back to her. I got another message from my bsf and she says, " Why was you saying wild stuff bout brax and his lil sis" I wrote back and explained to her my thought process of writing that and she has read it but hasn’t replied. I’m lost. Am I in the wrong for saying something out of context?