The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/spillthecoffee on 2024-10-12 16:44:32.
Background:
- My parents got divorced when I was 18years old
- My dad remarried and has 3 stepchildren (F37, F21, M36)
- My mom remarried and has 1 step child (F12)
- My bio sister (F28) included myself (F30) and my step sister (F12) in her wedding as bridesmaids.
- Me and F12 were asked to give a do speech
Speech Intro: “we want to start by saying Not many people can say they have a really beautiful and brilliant sister but (bio sister) is lucky enough to be able to say she has 2… thats us
My dad is OUTRAGED that we didn’t say 4 sisters. My bio sister and I are both very very close with our little sister (F12) and see her frequently. My dad’s step kids we maybe see 1x a year and never really grew up together. I view them all as family and friends that I care about but not SIBLINGS.
My dad is sending me paragraphs about how I consider his new family less then and why would I do that etc.
I talked to my dad’s step daughter (F21) and apologized and she said she didn’t even think about it and really enjoyed the speech. My bio sister loved the speech!
AM I THE ASSHOLE?