The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/lightsofcamel on 2024-05-31 10:14:25.

So someone who I’ve known all my life is getting married tomorrow and I was obviously scheduled to go. But unfortunately on last Saturday I got a chest infection that has caused me to have one of the worst cases of sickness in my life.

I haven’t been able to eat for 4 days and I can barely drink or stay awake for more than an hour and I’ve thrown up 3 or more time everyday this week. I’ve been trying to get ahold of the person getting married but they are notoriously hard to get ahold of but finally I managed to get them to pick up a phone call, and once I told them my situation their reaction was to instantly call me ridiculous and say that I have to come because I’m very important to them, I said I can’t because it would be incredibly irresponsible of me to get everyone at a wedding sick, he just said " that’s absolutely ridiculous, I’m done with this conversation, goodbye" and then we hung up. Their reaction really hurt me and made me feel like it’s my fault and that I’ve hurt them in some way.